Maho added a marriage plugin for us! You can now get "married" on Trek.
Here's how it works:
If you want to get married, get your partner to agree, then find a friendly Admin, Sysadmin, on up and they can marry you. It costs 1.5k for each of you. Once you're married, you can set a new joint home with your partner, tp to that home, tp to your partner at any time w/o waiting for them to have to accept, give them the item in your hand with a command, have a special private chat with your partner (Staff can still monitor this and it's still subject to server rules!!!), and toggle pvp on and off between the two of you!
Choose wisely, divorces ALSO cost the couple 3k!
You can see the commands with /marry in game, but here they are as well:
/marry - List all marry commands
/marry divorce <playername> - Divorces two players, only for priests
/marry list - Shows all married players
/marry tp - Teleports to the partner
/marry sethome - Sets the home for two married players
/marry home - Teleports to the home of married players
/marry chat - Allows to chat a couple private
/marry chat toggle - Toggles the chat to send all chat messages to the partner instead of to the public
/marry pvpon - Turns PvP between two married players on
/marry pvpoff - Turns PvP between two married players off
/marry gift - Gifts the item in your hand to your partner
/marry me - Sends a player a marry request